Monday, October 31, 2011

Frocktober Wrap Up -With Vlog!!

Well I have done it! 31 days of dresses for Frocktober. I have worn 31 different dresses...and a hat. My two girls also joined me most days in their pretty dresses and did their best "Cheeeese!" for the camera. We have raised $430 so far but the website is still open for donations www.everydayhero.com.au/mummysundeservedblessings. The charity has  currently raised $103, 919 total from 185 participants (not all of them female).

Here is the final week and a bit's wrap up for those who missed the facebook posts:

Sunday 23rd
 
Monday 24th
 
Tuesday 25th
 
Wednesday 26th 
 
Thursday 27th 
 
Friday 28th
 
Saturday 29th





Sunday 30th 

Monday 31st




















Frocktober Stats:


Total Dresses: 31
Total Black Dresses: 6
Total Borrowed Dresses: 9
Times Tights Were Required: 9
Total Hats: 1

It has been a great way to raise money for Ovarian Cancer research and also to raise awareness about Ovarian cancer and its impact on those who are diagnosed with this horrible disease.


I wanted to be able to thank everyone in person so I created a vlog. Apologies in advance for the video. I should have had a script as I said the same thing twice (see if you can pick it -and if you can I meant to say two different things rather than repeating myself). I am at a pub but promise I wasn't drinking anything stronger than Coke :)


Anyway enjoy my ramblings and my beautiful hat

video












Sunday, October 30, 2011

I'm Happy to Admit I am Perfectly Imperfect

I never try to pretend I am perfect...in fact most people know me as someone who is real about their failings. Maybe it is because I am way too honest or a rebellion against those who like to talk themselves up. Whatever it is when I saw this link up from Kate at Picklebums on The Useful Box blog I knew I just had to join in.

I actually think it is really helpful to share our imperfections, rather than putting on a show to look like the perfect mother.  I know I feel more comforted talking to the real mum who admits she struggles, rather than the know it all mum.

Here are some things I maybe should be ashamed to admit..but I'm not :)

1. I sometimes get to the end of the day and realise my child is still wearing the same nappy as she was at 9am that morning.

But it's ok as we discovered a Huggies Nappy Pants nappy can hold 1.5kg of water (after being dropped in the bath)


2. I have been heard to tell my kids "Eat your hot chips or you will..(insert negative consequence here)!" and "Stop eating the fruit!"

Giant kids meal!...couldn't really expect them to eat all this.


3. When I was pregnant with Claire I could not be bothered picking up toys so I would kick them into a corner and ask my hubby to pick them up when he got home.

4. I have been known to take advantage of my hubby's  poor sense of smell when it comes to nappies.

5.I tell my kids off for saying "What?" to me and then hear myself saying "What?" when they are talking to me.

6. I love the idea of being organised but the more I try to organise the more mess I make to do it.

7. I have not called one of my best friends in over 4 months (but I know our friendship remains strong as she is the same as me)

8. I often over commit to things and need my hubby to help me get everything done (like baking & icing biscuits at 11pm)

9. I spend way too long in the shower.

In this lovely shower cap!


10. You will all hate me for this one.....I sleep in until 7am or even 7.30am most mornings while my hubby gets the kids up and feeds them breakfast.

Despite my failings, my kids, friends and hubby are very forgiving. I do try to be a great Mum and succeed some of the time but the reality is, being a mum can be hard and we all make mistakes. At the end of the day I am doing my best and my family knows I love them.


Are you perfectly imperfect? It is ok to admit it...you may even help another struggling mum to feel normal.




Wednesday, October 26, 2011

GUEST POST: The kids aren’t all right – how children are affected by famine

A little while ago I was approached by a charity called ActionAid asking me whether I would be willing to host a guest post from them. As I had previously posted on the famine in East Africa, I thought it would be a great way create further awareness and show my support. Please read and consider whether you can support in this way.



It’s hard to imagine not being able to provide your children with the food and nourishment that they need – not only to protect their health but for their survival. But this is the reality that mothers in East Africa are facing on a daily basis. The drought crisis gripping East Africa is more than a food crisis – it’s now a crisis of child survival.
For many in the Western World, thinking about the realities of the situation in drought stricken areas in Africa can quickly be lumped into the ‘too hard’ basket. It is distressing to think about the suffering, hunger and death that many in the refugee camps are experiencing - particularly because history has proven that women and children are the most vulnerable during crises, including famine. Currently, it is estimated that 80% of refugees are women and children.
Famine has been officially declared in six Somali regions – the effects of which are compounded by the history of violence and conflict in the country over the past 20 years. In the desperate search for help, food and shelter, hundreds of thousands of people are moving across the border into Kenyan refugee camps. The Dadaab camp in north eastern Kenya – the world’s largest refugee camp – is overwhelmed and cannot cater to the amount of people in search of lifesaving assistance. With a capacity of 90,000 people there are currently 400,000 refugees in Dadaab with numbers increasing daily.
The UN has estimated that 750,000 people are on the brink of death in East Africa. Even more startling, it is estimated that one in three children in the affected regions is malnourished. 


Why are children so vulnerable?
Famine is the widespread scarcity of food – the main consequence of which is malnutrition. While malnutrition presents major health hurdles for adults, it is most devastating for children. During their developmental years (their first years), malnutrition can impede both their physical and mental development. By definition, malnutrition is the condition when a body is not properly nourished with the nutrients it needs.
Not only can malnutrition rob children of the nutrients they need for their development, it also makes children more susceptible to disease. Disease is rife in the overcrowded refugee camps throughout East Africa, adding to the seriousness of the health crisis facing affected children. Currently, many children under the age of five are dying within a few days of arriving in refugee camps.  While malnutrition doesn’t always kill, it can have permanent damage. With a weakened immune system and stunted development, children will feel the effects throughout their life. In fact, malnutrition is most devastating when it affects children in the womb. Just as it stops a young child developing properly, malnutrition hampers the development of the foetus. 

What does malnutrition look like?
Malnutrition is diagnosed by measuring weight and height to check if children are under the ‘normal’ weight for their height and age based on World Health Organisation standards. The circumference of a child’s arm is also measured – if it is that of a 20c coin the child is suffering ‘severe acute malnutrition’. Thirdly, the most obvious visual signs of malnutrition are swollen legs, feet or cheeks. 

Is there relief in sight?
Currently, refugee camps are overwhelmed, making it difficult to treat all severe malnutrition cases.  13.3 million people are affected by the crisis – 4.14 million of which are children. But there are significant relief and aid efforts underway. And, there are ways to help alleviate this crisis and ensure that it doesn’t happen again. Child sponsorship is one such way. By sponsoring a child in an affected country, you inject funds into that community that ensure not only the child’s health and wellbeing, but that of the community. Funds go towards implementing sustainable food strategies and educating communities on food practices. The funds are also used for improving education and health facilities. 

 The gravity of the situation in East Africa – and what it means for millions of children – is hard to comprehend. But every journey begins with one footstep, and every aid dollar that goes towards those affected helps ease the crisis. 






Friday, October 21, 2011

Frockober Update: Week Two & Three

This week has been a much easier week for doing this challenge. The sun has been shining and my lovely sister in law let me borrow a few of her dresses that are colourful (I have way too many black dresses). I have enjoyed being cool (temperature cool) in my dresses while the weather is warm. This is the kind of weather I was imagining when I first signed up for this challenge.

I have also been very excited that our donations have been going up. It is now week three and we have $220 which is great but would be very exciting if we could hit our target of $500 or even $1000. Please consider if you can donate. Don't feel it has to be much just as much as you can spare. I like to think that by doing this I can contribute to Ovarian cancer research and by the time my daughters are teenagers there will be a screening test and even better a cure for this horrible disease. 

Anyway here is pics from the last two weeks if you have missed them. Day 21 now and I still have not work the same dress twice. Only 10 to go and I think I still have that or more in the wardrobe (although some have been borrowed).

Here is last week's wrap up:

Saturday 8/10


Sunday 9/10
 

Monday 10/10


Tuesday 11/10



Wednesday 12/10


Thursday 13/10


Friday 14/10




This  past week:

Saturday 15/10

Sunday 16/10


Monday 17/10



Tuesday 18/10



Wednesday 19/10



Thursday 20/10


Friday 21/10 


So there you have it! 21 dresses so far and 10 to go! Please donate at www.everydayhero.com.au/mummysundeservedblessings this site is safe to donate to if you are worried about using your credit card. 

Thanks to those who have donated and thanks in advance to those who will donate this week.





Sunday, October 16, 2011

Being Content "Just" Being a Mum

I know that there are lots of women out there who hate the idea of being "just" a mum. Of course no one is "just" a Mum. We mums wear a million different hats and are often working harder caring for our families than we ever did in our pre-kid occupations.

I am one of those strange people who actually like the idea of being "just" a mum. I guess it has a lot to do with the fact that falling pregnant and keeping a baby was so difficult for us that to have actually given birth to a baby makes me feel like I have achieved something really special. I think it is also that I have am less concerned about what other people think of me in regard to my intelligence and achievements because I know that I have achieved many things in my life and raising my family is the most important thing I will ever do in my life.

 In my pre-kids days I had a few different careers. First I was a Hairdresser (which I guess I still am as I completed an apprenticeship), then I was (briefly) a Waitress while I was studying at uni, then I used my Psychology degree working as a Rehabilitation Consultant. However, many people I know could not tell you what I did before I had kids because I hardly talk about what I did before. I love being a mum and it is what defines my life now.

In the past when I was a Hairdresser I found it difficult when people thought that I "dropped out" of school because I could not handle it. I loved telling people that I was studying Psychology as they thought I was intelligent. Neither of these assumptions were true, in both cases I was just working hard at doing what I enjoyed. I think that these experiences made it easier to accept that people think of me as "just" a mum.

 Of course I do have things that I want to achieve in my life. Lots of my close friends will know that I am constantly struggling with wanting to complete further training to be a "real" Psychologist not just someone with a Psych degree. My poor husband has had to endure me regularly agonising over when is the right time to do it, and how I should go about doing it. I am sure I will do it one day,  but for now I am not willing to give up this time with my kids. Every time I have looked into doing it God has said "no" and I have realised it is not the right time. Whether it be realising the time commitment required, or recently when thought I might do it next year and then a little person was suddenly growing in my womb...the answer was another "no".

I think I am slowly learning that this time in my life is for raising my family. While having further training in Psychology would be great to have in order to be able to help people, the people who need me most are my kids. If I get to the end of my life I know that God is not going to care whether I became a Psychologist. He is only going to be concerned that did the best I could with the responsibilities he gave me and my kids are the most important of those responsibilities.

So for the next few years I am going to be "just" a mum....and I am going to love every moment of it!

Even moments when they do this!



Monday, October 10, 2011

Frocktober Update: One Week Down, Three to Go!

If you have not already caught up on my latest crazy idea I am wearing dresses every day in October as part of Frocktober which aims to raise money in support of research into Ovarian cancer.

When I decided on the idea it was a warm morning and the thought of wearing dresses for a month was very appealing. However as there have only been two warmish days so far, wearing dresses each day has actually been really hard. I have had to wear tights and a long sleeve t-shirt under most dresses just to stay a little bit warm and on the really cold days I have been stripping off the dresses and putting trackies, jumper and ugg boots in instead.

Here is a brief catch up on my first week of Frocktober for those who missed it on facebook:

Saturday: Mainly stayed indoors but still needed the tights and long sleeve top


Sunday: Family from out of town arrived and we visited Floriade. Really this is the only time Canberrans venture outside when it is really cold...just to show off some flowers to visiting relatives. I was wearing a lovely summery maxi dress (with a massive coat and tights underneath). I started to regret my decision to do Frocktober.


Monday: I stayed in pj until 11.30 then popped this dress on as I was indoors and then on a car trip to Sydney for the day.


Tuesday: I spent the day with my in laws in the Blue Mountains where is was much warmer than Canberra


Wednesday: My family attended a camp for Minister's Families. No doubt some were thinking "This girl has obviously never been to a camp before!" I told a few people..ok as many as I could that it was for charity.


Thursday: Still at the camp...still getting some funny looks as it was cold that day but I was trying to not worry about it and enjoy myself.


Friday: Heading home from the camp wearing my super comfy wrap dress. Week one completed and only three and a bit to go.


I am finding it pretty hard and am actually hanging to wear my jeans but I am really hoping that some of you will support me as I do this. Even a few dollars will add up of lots of people do it. Please go to www.everydayhero.com.au/mummysunderservedblessings and show your support.

Keep following my daily updates on my facebook  page


Sunday, October 9, 2011

Rembering the Things I am Thankful for When I am Feeling Down

It might be the pregnancy hormones or the cold, but I am feeling really flat today. I have been feeling this way on and off recently and it has made me really unmotivated and I have been finding it difficult to see the good things in life.

In thinking about what I wanted to write about I was going through some photos and found this photo.

Mountain AND water views



It is nothing really significant, just the view from my bedroom window but it made me remember that there are so many things I am thankful for in my life. This post is to help me refocus on the great things in my life but I also hope it helps others to think of the things in their life that they are thankful for when they are having trouble seeing the good things they have.

So here I go (these are just in the order I think of them). I am thankful for:

  • A husband that loves me and looks after me and my girls so well.
  • Two beautiful girls who bring me joy everyday.


  • A great extended family (which includes wonderful in-laws) who are always very supportive.
  • Great long term and newer friends who are there for me when I need them.
  • A wonderfully supportive church family.
  • A job where I don't have to work too many hours and can take my kids with me and get a gym membership.
  • A warm, comfortable house to live in with a great view.
  • More than enough food to eat
  • A life free of financial troubles.
  • Good health and access to great health care when I need it.
  • A life free from grudges against others and long standing conflict.
I could go on for a lot longer and there are likely some things I missed but  the biggest thing I am thankful for and who I am thankful to is God. Without His love for me and His forgiveness of all of my past and future sins I would not have many of these things. He has grown and changed me in ways I could never have achieved on my own and has blessed me in the above ways and in many other ways. Not only will I have these blessings on earth I also know I have the ultimate blessings of spending eternity with Him and enjoying blessings that I cannot even imagine right now.

So there it is, and I am feeling much better! Maybe you can try to write down a list of things you are thankful for when you are feeling down.

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